Rather than pulling over and having an honest discussion, the guy tosses you out of the car and speeds off. YOU DROVE ME HERE, ASSH*LE.”Then you feel sh*tty about yourself and are confronted with the dilemma of what to do when (not if, but when) he slowly turns around to see if you're still waiting there.
Not to be confused with the pull-out, the pull-back can be subtle, which is why I like to call it, “The Assh*le Dial.”Basically, it's the first time someone does something slightly flaky, like canceling plans last minute or “forgetting” to answer text messages.
But, this doesn't mean you have to stop living your lives and enter a serious, long-term, monogamous relationship. Before you can figure out what you want, stop calling it what it isn't.
We are a generation that simply refuses to admit when we have feelings for someone.
There was a time when I actually used to spend hours trying to figure out what a guy's flaky behaviors meant.This persisted until I realized the only thing consistent about these guys was their inconsistency.